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The Stonehaven

10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK 74133
9.7
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34 reviews

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Anonymous - Child of resident/client
4.0
Super friendly staff

Within the first few minutes of us walking in the door, we both looked at each other and said "this is it!" Everybody was super friendly, employees and residents, it didn't smell, the kitchen was good about my mom's gluten intolerance, great activities director and activities! My husband and I have already told our sons to put us there when we need assisted living.... Read more

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About the facility The Stonehaven

At The Stonehaven, we offer a variety of amenities for residents. Residents can enjoy regular off-site adventures and excursions. Cats and dogs are allowed in private quarters. The residence is conveniently located near accessible public transportation. We offer free wi-fi. All meals are provided to residents. We love to accommodate visiting guests, meals included. Dining includes restaurant-style dining and room service. We offer meal services such as vegetarian food and low/no sodium options. The life Enrichment calendar includes Wii Sports Bowling for bowling enthusiasts. We offer Dakim BrainFitness, a clinically-proven brain-training program to help their residents improve and preserve mental functioning. We have specially curated on-site activities that stimulate both mental and physical well-being. Outdoor common areas are designed with accessibility, flow, and movement for residents in mind. Indoor common areas are quiet and a nice place to enjoy the company of fellow residents or just relax. Residents have access to our communal spaces including a fully-stocked arts and crafts center, a bistro, a library complete with a diverse selection of titles, and a movie room.

The Stonehaven has 1 and 2-bedroom units for potential residents seeking a roommate, studio units, and companion units for those residents who would like or...

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Assisted Living
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The Stonehaven is a community within Legend Senior Living properties. See all Legend Senior Living communities.

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Health Care Services

Memory Care
Diabetic Care
Incontinence Care
Medication Management
Non-Ambulatory Care
Staffing & Ancillary Services

Meals & Dining

Gluten-free
Low / No Sodium
No Sugar
Guest Meals

Room Amenities

Wheelchair Accessible Showers
Respite or Short Term Stays Offered
Wi-Fi/high-speed internet
Kitchenette
Ground Floor Units
Air Conditioned

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Dining

Café or Bistro

Transportation & parking

Complimentary Transportation
Property Convenient to Public Transit
Resident Parking Available
Uncovered Parking

Pets

Weight limit 41-50lbs
Dogs Allowed
Cats Allowed

Common areas

Outdoor Common Areas
Indoor Common Areas
Barber Shop
Beauty Salon

Recreational areas

Arts and Crafts Center
Fitness Center
Movie or Theater Room
Piano or Organ

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Housekeeping
Beautician
Grocery Shopping and Errands
Laundry Service / Drycleaning

Memory care

Secured Community
Designed Specifically to Accommodate Memory Loss
Enclosed Courtyard
Indoor Walking Paths

Languages spoken

English

Activities

Devotional Activities On-Site
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Art Classes
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9.7

Review Score

Review Score

34 reviews

9.7

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5 star

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4 star

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34 reviews

A Place for Mom has scored The Stonehaven with 9.7 out of 10 using our proprietary review score based on 16 reviews in the last 2 years. Over all time, The Stonehaven has 34 reviews with an average "overall experience" of 4.5 out of 5.

How we score communities
Cleanliness

4.8

Friendliness

4.7

Meals & Dining

4.6

Care Services

4.4

Activities

4.7

Staff

4.7

Value for Cost

4.4

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4.0
Anonymous - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
November 7, 2024
Verified Review
Super friendly staff

Within the first few minutes of us walking in the door, we both looked at each other and said "this is it!" Everybody was super friendly, employees and residents, it didn't smell, the kitchen was good about my mom's gluten intolerance, great activities director and activities! My husband and I have already told our sons to put us there when we need assisted living.


5.0
Nanette B - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
September 16, 2024
Verified Review
Wonderful alternative to home living.

All 5 stars! They truly become family. We chose The Stonehaven initially because of the size of the facility. Big enough to offer many different benefits but small enough to feel homey.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

September 23, 2024

Thank you for the wonderful five-star review! We’re thrilled to hear that you feel like family at The Stonehaven. It’s great that our community's size offers the perfect balance of benefits while maintaining a warm, homey atmosphere. Your satisfaction means the world to us!


4.0
KR - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
July 17, 2024
Verified Review
Review for The Stonehaven

I would say it's a beautiful facility, delicious food, fun activities, nice residents. My only criticism is with the night time med aides, who are impatient and not very compassionate. Daytime nurse and aides are great and good to keep the family informed. Yes, I've recommended to others.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

4

Activities

5

Staff

4

Value for Cost

4


5.0
Anonymous - Resident/client
Assisted Living
May 3, 2024
Verified Review
Recommended

I am currently a resident at The Stonehaven and everything about my experience here has been great so far. The cleanliness and friendliness are great. The staff, care services, meals and activities are also great. Based on my experience, I would recommend The Stonehaven to others, especially for their Memory Care.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

May 10, 2024

Thank you for your wonderful review! We're delighted that your experience at The Stonehaven has been positive. Our team takes pride in providing a clean, friendly environment with excellent care services, meals, and activities. Your recommendation, especially for our Memory Care, means a lot to us!


5.0
Anonymous - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
February 6, 2024
Verified Review
Beautiful, clean, well kept senior community

We chose The Stonehaven over others we saw because mother liked the look and the sales rep and thought she would like it there. It was a clean welcoming atmosphere. Residents and rooms always clean and neat.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

4

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5


5.0
Nanette - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
October 10, 2023
Verified Review
A wonderful place for our loved ones.

What we like the most about The Stonehaven community is that every one is extremely nice and helpful. They are in excellent hands at Stonehaven. The memory center has changed my Mother-in-laws life. She is in the memory center and is flourishing.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

October 10, 2023

Nanette, what a wonderful review! We are so grateful to serve your mother-in-law here at The Stonehaven and look forward to many more flourishing moments here with her!


5.0
Anonymous - Toured community
Assisted Living
September 26, 2023
Verified Review
Tour of The Stonehaven

We took a tour of The Stonehaven during our search for an Assisted Living facility for our loved one. This facility was extremely nice! It's like a 5 star hotel. However, the rooms seemed small for the price. The facility didn't feel like the right place for my loved one.

Response from The Stonehaven

September 27, 2023

Thank you so much for visiting us at The Stonehaven! So pleased to know your experience was 5-Star!


5.0
Susan S - Spouse or partner of resident/client
Assisted Living
August 17, 2023
A great place to live

The charm of Stonehaven is immediately seen when you first walk in the front doors. Fireplace with seating around them, balconies on the 2nd floor, a 30 ft window, decorations for the season, and a friendly front desk person to help you. All the staff, without exception is friendly, efficient, and professional. A schedule is made up and given to each resident at the beg. of each week so they can plan ahead. A large dining area provides great food, with other options given when desired or needed. As the spouse of a resident, I find peace of mind in the excellence of care provided. The best thing for me is that my loved one has not asked to leave. He has so much offered to him which is tailored to himself. I am so blessed by knowing he is safe and his needs are being met in such a wonderful environment.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

September 19, 2023

Thank you for your review, Susan! We appreciate you taking the time to share your experience with us. Thank you!


5.0
Betty G - Resident/client
Assisted Living
August 15, 2023
I love my new home!

The Stonehaven is a clean, well-maintained and beautiful place to call home. But even more important to me are the care staff and management. My caretakers are kind as well as skilled. Management is approachable, listens to my needs and takes action. I feel my opinions matter. I enjoy making new friends. The activities I participate in are fun and make it easy to meet people. Making the decision to sell my home wasn't easy, but I made the right decision. I love my new home!

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

4

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

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Response from The Stonehaven

September 19, 2023

We love having you with us Betty! Thank you for taking the time to leave us a 5-Star review! We appreciate your feedback.


5.0
Carla - Child of resident/client
Memory Care
August 14, 2023
We love Stonehaven!

Stonehaven is a beautiful, clean and welcoming community with extremely friendly and helpful staff members. We have loved ones in both assisted living and in memory care. All of them are well cared for, happy, and thriving. Everything from our first tour and contract signing to move-in day and visits with family have been positive experiences.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

September 19, 2023

Carla thank you for your outstanding 5-star review! We are honored to have your loved ones with us. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with us.


5.0
Grateful - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
August 12, 2023
Best in the Tulsa area

After extensive research and visits to the top rated assisted living facilities in Tulsa, my daughters & I knew this would be the best place for my 96 year old mother. We have only been more impressed since she moved in. From sales & management, front desk, transportation, kitchen & dining, activities & fitness, to housekeeping & maintenance, they have all been the very best, and my mother is so happy & comfortable in her new home with so many wonderful new friends! We all highly recommend it.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

4

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

September 19, 2023

We are honored to have your mother with us! Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with us. We are thrilled to hear that you have had a great experience with The Stonehaven.


5.0
Lew Y - Resident/client
Assisted Living
August 11, 2023
Entering "The Linden" assisted living comunity

Upon arriving at "The Linden" (Since Renamed "The Stomehaven") I found a bright and cheery atmosphere filled with happy people that quickly became my friends. The caretakers are quick to respond to any needs that arise. I'm glad I'm here.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

September 19, 2023

We love having you with us Lew! Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with us. We appreciate your words and feedback!


5.0
Nanette Bennett - Child of resident/client
Memory Care
August 11, 2023
Success!! for our parents!

Everyone has been so kind and caring during this difficult transition. We are so impressed with the entire place. Having to split Mom and Dad (one in memory care) has been difficult to say the least. However; it was a seamless experience. My mom in memory care is thriving within one week. I haven’t seen her this happy in years.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

5

Care Services

5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

5

Response from The Stonehaven

September 19, 2023

Nanette we are honored to have your loved ones at The Stonehaven! Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with us. We appreciate your feedback!


4.0
CDW74361 - Toured community
Memory Care
June 15, 2023
Verified Review
My Tour Experience at The Linden at Stonehaven Square

The tour was nice, but after being at another community and so disappointed in what happened to us that it caused us to have doubts by the beauty instead of the care.

Response from The Stonehaven

January 23, 2024

We are happy to hear you enjoyed your visit at The Stonehaven. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We strive to provide the best care to residents. If you have any further questions or concerns, please give us a call!


4.0
Anonymous - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
May 18, 2023
Verified Review
Linden Review

Food is not great and activities seem redundant.... They need a plan of action to incorporate new residents during their first few weeks. Have all staff and residents wear a name tag or lanyard. Another suggestion, update landscaping, get rid of dead bushes, plant new bushes, flowers, ground cover and mulch in front sides and in back.

Cleanliness

5

Friendliness

4

Meals & Dining

2

Care Services

4

Activities

2

Staff

4

Value for Cost

3

Response from The Stonehaven

January 23, 2024

Thank you for sharing your feedback. We would like to learn more about your experience. Please give us a call at 877-877-3892, we look forward to hearing from you.


5.0
Anonymous - Toured community
Assisted Living
May 11, 2023
Verified Review
Excellent facility/tour

I toured The Linden at Stonehaven Square during my search for Assisted Living Care for my loved one. This facility was excellent, from what I saw. I was impressed! Also, my tour guide was very professional.

Response from The Stonehaven

January 23, 2024

Thank you for taking the time to visit us at The Stonehaven! We are thrilled to hear you enjoyed your visit. Thank you for sharing your feedback with us!


1.0
anonymous - Loved one of resident/client
Memory Care
November 8, 2022
Verified Review
our families experience

On the memory care side they really need to make improvements from top to bottom - especially regarding their staff team, that has become a major issue. We had issues that were never explained to us, they do not allow advanced care which is significant - anything that has to do with advanced care they are very resistant. They do not offer physical therapy like they say they do and they do not allow or assist with any lifts. It has not met expectations.

Cleanliness

3

Friendliness

2

Meals & Dining

4

Care Services

1

Activities

4

Staff

2

Value for Cost

1


4.0
Anonymous - Toured community
Assisted Living
November 2, 2022
Verified Review

I toured this community and it was good! It was very clean and staff was friendly.


5.0
Anonymous - Toured community
Memory Care
October 12, 2022
Verified Review

I toured this community and it was really nice. It was clean and staff was friendly. We didn't like that the rooms were smaller and bathrooms were shared.


5.0
Cindy - Child of resident/client
Assisted Living
September 19, 2022
Verified Review
Highly recommend, accomdoting staff

We have really enjoyed our experience at The Linden at Stonehaven Square. Residents have a lot of activities to choose from each day. Every one is so friendly and helpful. They keep the facility very clean and organized and it is just overall a very nice place. They try to make accommodations as best they can with my loved ones special gluten and dairy free diet. They have an alternate menu as well she can choose from. We would highly recommend The Linden to others.

Cleanliness

4.5

Friendliness

5

Meals & Dining

4

Care Services

4.5

Activities

5

Staff

5

Value for Cost

4.5


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